How does one succeed in life?

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Artists get better with age, e.g., painting. Yet when it comes to pop music, the famous work tends to be written when musicians are in their twenties. So, why aren't Bob Dylan or the Stones banging out amazing tunes now?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

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Losing 20kg is a goal.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

That's it for today.

Why are the democrats keep insisting that there are more than two genders?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

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Procrastinates a lot.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Would you raise your children like your parents raised you?

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

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Living to your full potential is a goal.

Does not procrastinate.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

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However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Why do I feel bad when I see white girls dating black guys, am I racist?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

I’m a man. Why do I always fantasize about men’s cock? I don’t want a relationship with the man, I just want to suck his cock.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

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I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

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Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Ask yourself:

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

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Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Hangs out with loser friends.

How would you feel if your friend confided in you that she is cheating on her husband, knowing that he loves her deeply? What emotional and ethical considerations would you grapple with in response to her revelation?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

What I need from you?

Why do men choose to marry a plain Jane woman over a pretty woman?

Do not set goals—set systems.

Making more friends is a goal.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

I can not sleep. what is the problem?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.